Category Archives: Love and Sex

Thanks for not enduring touch that doesn’t feel good

I am always amazed and surprisingly delighted how little things make a big difference in having a satisfying intimate life. For example, this morning: I was cuddled up to my love in bed, both of us half asleep, my hand … Continue reading

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Casual, Committed or Conscious Sex

A recent email conversation with a friend of mine got me thinking about the differences between Casual, Committed and Conscious sex and how to get more good sex in general. My friend is a woman who is beautiful, smart, unattached … Continue reading

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Honouring Desire

I’m going to start this post with a personal story. My spiritual journey started with Buddhist meditation. I had my first true spiritual energetic experience, a direct experience of God, while doing a 10-day silent meditation retreat. After that, for … Continue reading

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Advice for Men to Last Longer and Enjoy More Erotic Energy and Heart Connection

Being able to last as long as I like and choose when I have an orgasm is something that I have been working on mastering for a very long time. And to be honest, after years and thousands kegel exercises, … Continue reading

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Massage Yourself not Just Your Online Dating Profile

I have many friends who are searching for love and connection via online dating sites. My friends are spending hours flirting, chatting, writing emails, arranging dates, and “massaging their profiles” in their quest for love and sex. It’s a challenging … Continue reading

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Finding Pleasure

One of the joys of having a body is feeling pleasure. But how often, when we are having sex, are we actually feeling pleasure? I’ll use a personal story to make my point. Not long ago I was getting sexy … Continue reading

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